Our “What Truly Matters” Journey Begins
What truly matters is a very deep question. I’m honored you’ve joined us on this journey of self discovery in 2017. Please grab a cup of something warm, pull up a chair, and let’s have a little visit.
As I mentioned in last weeks post, we are going to delve into what truly matters in our lives. We are going to look within to start this new year in a manner that just might make a difference for the rest of our lives. But the only way that will happen is if you come along side me, gather your courage and tell me what you think about the ideas shared here.
So . . .
I ask it again, what truly matters in your life? This time I hope you will pause, and reflect on that question for a few moments . . .
Did you come up with what truly matters in your life right now? If so, please take a moment and share those things with me in the “Comments” Section below.
Ok, let’s continue –
Why Does What Truly Matters in 2017, Matter? Trust Me, It Does!
On our road to what truly matters let me ask yet another question – How are we going to make 2017 a better year than 2016? Especially when we know 90% of us don’t stick with our New Years Day Resolutions?
I think the best way is to look within.
But at what? And why?
There are several basic emotions that are at the root of many issues today.
When you break those emotions all the way down, we most often get to fear. Unfortunately, fear motivates a great deal of what we do today.
We are afraid we won’t have enough money at the end of the month. And this is a valid concern of late!
We are afraid of what the politicians are going to do. Or not do.
We are afraid of what someone is going to think of us. Or not think of us.
Afraid we will say or do something embarrassing.
But in reality, do any of these truly impact us for the long term?
So why are we looking at this you ask. Because we are trying to set up a frame work for each of us for change.
Positive change. Real, meaningful change.
What can do that? What can turn fear around and allow us to work on real, meaningful change?
Why trust you ask. What has that got to do with what truly matters?
Ok, that’s fair. Let’s examine trust.
What is trust? And why does it matter? How do we build trust?
To start figuring that out let’s look at trust from a different perspective.
When you flick the light switch do you trust the light will turn on or off.
Of course you do.
Unless something’s wrong. Then you trust the power company will fix it. Right?
What about the water in your sink?
We all trust that if you turn the handle, or lift the lever in our sink, water will come out, right? Unless you didn’t pay the bill! Or the line is broken. But under normal circumstances, you turn the handle and water comes out of the faucet.
We all have mindless “trust” in these things.
However, on a deeper level, how does that word and the act of “trust” come into play?
How can trust aid us in making 2017 better than 2016?
How can trust help us figure out what truly matters?
And what does trust do in the face of fear?
Be Bless my friends!